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6 SECRETS TO BEING AN AWESOME BASKETBALL PARENT FROM LIFTYOURGAME.NET

If your kids are aspiring NBA stars, you know what basketball means to them.

But what’s your role in supporting a youth player? How can you help them play to their full potential?

Whether you’ve played the game before or not, here are 6 secrets to being an awesome basketball parent.

1. Give constant support

As an aspiring athlete, the more seriously you take the sport, the sweeter your wins are. But at the same time, failures taste much more bitter.

Kids need parents who can provide that extra level of emotional support as they begin their basketball career. There’s so much already going on in the average kid’s life with school/homework, and playing competitive basketball can add an extra level of stress.

Your job is not only to congratulate your child when they achieve their goals (without inflating their ego too much!) but also to allow them to vent when things don’t go their way.

It’s crucial to attend as many games as possible, especially for kids under the age of 12. At this stage, children look to their parents for guidance, and seeing you in support will go a long way in helping their confidence.

2. Mentorship and advice

Your kid doesn’t have an agent – not yet at least!

Whether you’ve played basketball before or not, it’s still your job as a parent to provide advice where needed.

It’s not enough to just support the decisions they make. As a parent, you have the power to take a step back, and look at the bigger picture. You might be able to help your son or daughter make a better decision about which team to play on, which position to play, or what skills to focus on in the off-season.

Remember though, your kid needs to be able to control their own destiny. While you can provide advice, if you take complete control, it gets much easier for your child to become frustrated and demotivated, especially if they disagree with you.

3. Provide the opportunity to play – as much as possible

Even for parents whose kids don’t play basketball, it can feel like you’re a full-time taxi service a lot of the time.

If your kids take their basketball seriously, you’ll not only have to get them to games and practice, but also potentially to tryouts and training camps as well.

However, you also want to give your kids the opportunity to practice on their own, if at all possible.

If you don’t have a park with a decent half-court near you, it’s always possible to put a freestanding portable hoop in the yard or on the driveway. Simply pack it away when winter rolls around, unless you have the space and sunshine to keep it up all year round.

4. Don’t overdo it

No matter what sports your kids play, you don’t want to be the crazy soccer mom.

Never shout at anyone on the court, especially not the refs, and don’t coach your kids from the sidelines. Not only is doing this extremely embarrassing for your kid, it can also make them want to stop playing basketball.

Remember, your kids should have their own motivation to play the sports that they do. Otherwise, they won’t have any enthusiasm for the game.

This is why parents are often told to focus on their kids’ enjoyment of the sport, rather than winning, especially for younger players.

5. Maintain good relationships

Believe it or not, your child will have a much easier time on and off the court if you’re able to maintain good relationships with the key people in their team – especially the coach.

This isn’t just about coaches picking players whose parents are nice to them.

By keeping in constant contact, you can learn an incredible amount about where your kid might be able to improve their game. Often, some information isn’t shared with the player directly. You might find out for example what type of team the coach wants to build, and where he sees your kid fitting in.

Surprisingly, this applies to everyone – from parents whose kids are starting their first season, to college-level athletes.

Also, if you don’t have much of a basketballing background, but show that you care about the sport (and your child’s participation), you should be able to learn a lot from their coach about the game, and how the high school/college sports system works as your kid grows older.

6. Managing the balancing act

If your kids are really talented, and want to one day play in the NBA, the logical reaction to this as a parent might be “but what if it doesn’t work out?”.

This is a perfectly reasonable response, because the truth is that the majority of kids don’t make it to the big league.

However, you obviously can’t crush your kid’s hopes and dreams like that. Doing so will crush their confidence – not just in sport, but in their studies and other interests as well.

Your job is to maintain the balancing act. It’s by no means easy!

Just remember, basketball has a whole heap of other benefits apart from the possibility of going pro. It enables your child to develop their teamwork and communication skills, allows them to learn about the importance of hard work and dedication, and last but not least, gives them the chance to burn off all their excess energy.

Basketball on the Edge – Why Do We Think Physical Punishment is a Good Teaching Tool in Sports? by John O’Sullivan @CTGProjectHQ

Team Sprints

Very interesting article about why using physical punishments like running sprints or doing push-ups may not be the best way to improve the performance of our athletes. Check it out and see if you agree or disagree…

Click here to read the article by John O’Sullivan.

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Basketball on the Edge – 3 Types of Feedback by Bob Walsh

 

Head Start Basketball Camp

If you are a coach at any level you’ll benefit from reading this article and thinking about the type of feedback you provide to your players. You’ll learn which type of feedback is most valuable and which type is mostly just talk. If you want to understand your the impact of your feedback take two minutes to read this article and then think about how you are talking to your players.

Click here to read the article by Bob Walsh

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Basketball on the Edge – My Season Ended in Disappointment by PGC Basketball

Disappointment

If you have ever played sports you have had disappointments. I know that I have losses in my playing and coaching career that stick with me to this very day. Only one team each year gets to end their season with a win. With the Final Four upon us I think this article will touch a nerve and inspire players, coaches, and parents to keep striving to be their best despite the near certainty that you will experience disappointment along the way.

Click here to read the article from PGC Basketball

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Basketball on the Edge – An Open Letter to the Out of Control Sports Parent Sitting Next to Me in the Stands by @CTGProjectHQ John O’Sullivan

Parents Out of Control

The open letter in this article was written by Karen, a mom and a Changing the Game Project follower who has grown frustrated and disgruntled with the current state of youth sports, and the fact that she cannot go and watch her kids compete in peace. She asked us to publish it and to remain anonymous. We thought it was pretty good advice, so we decided to share. Thanks, Karen, and thanks to all those parents out there who realize that the game is supposed to be for the kids. – John O’Sullivan

Dear Out of Control Sports Parent,

You.

Yeah, you.

The one shouting “Get the rebound!!!” to your kid. The one with the heart palpitating so loudly that you cannot contain yourself. The one yelling and complaining about the coach. The one hollering at the 13-year-old referee. The one angry at my kid for making a mistake. The one hollering at the kids who made a mistake running the scoreboard in a recreational tournament in a meaningless pool play game.

Yeah, you, the one whose spouse won’t sit next to you during the game…

Click here to read the rest of the letter!

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